"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think men who take "women's jobs" are viewed as having lower Sexual Market Value?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/05/men-in-nursing/526623/

On the one hand, being in field dominated by women should lead to a lot more social contacts (not necessarily dating a co-worker, but meeting her friends, etc.), but on the other hand, I could see being a detriment, as per this article:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/24/opinion/sunday/men-dont-want-to-be-nurses-their-wives-agree.html

I myself was in a very masculine career (engineering, and then programming), and going back through my sausage fest engineering college career, and before then an all-boy's school :mad:, I have no idea what it's like to have women around in my primary sphere, but I digress.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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I'm an Emergency Room Nurse and prior to this was a first responder and firefighter. So I went from a male dominated field to a female dominated field. I see no difference in the way women respond to what I do. In fact, quite the opposite since I am in emergency medicine. I get a lot of comments like "I don't know how you do what you do" and questions like "what's the worst thing you've ever seen?" If I was a floor nurse then it might be different. But being on the front lines of situations that equate life or death I get a lot of respect from pretty much everyone.

Now if I was a makeup artist or hair dresser than probably yes...
 

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Doesn't matter what you do. SMV is directly and primarily influenced by attraction.

So if you're a nurse...Be the best nurse the world has ever seen.

Mind your mission.
 

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It doesn't matter. What could lead to "detriment" is if the man has a feminine personality (and is straight of course) but that's with every career.
 

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I'm sure there are some women who might find it a turnoff when a guy is in a traditionally female field. But both the job market and perceptions about this are changing with the times, so I wouldn't sweat it. I'm sure many woman would also look up to a guy who was a nurse.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yap they are. We can love or no that fact, but simply that is a fact.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/05/men-in-nursing/526623/

On the one hand, being in field dominated by women should lead to a lot more social contacts (not necessarily dating a co-worker, but meeting her friends, etc.), but on the other hand, I could see being a detriment, as per this article:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/24/opinion/sunday/men-dont-want-to-be-nurses-their-wives-agree.html

I myself was in a very masculine career (engineering, and then programming), and going back through my sausage fest engineering college career, and before then an all-boy's school :mad:, I have no idea what it's like to have women around in my primary sphere, but I digress.
If he's nice in those environment yes . It will raise his estrogen. If he's a player in there he can thrive.
 
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