"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think men who take "women's jobs" are viewed as having lower Sexual Market Value?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/05/men-in-nursing/526623/

On the one hand, being in field dominated by women should lead to a lot more social contacts (not necessarily dating a co-worker, but meeting her friends, etc.), but on the other hand, I could see being a detriment, as per this article:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/24/opinion/sunday/men-dont-want-to-be-nurses-their-wives-agree.html

I myself was in a very masculine career (engineering, and then programming), and going back through my sausage fest engineering college career, and before then an all-boy's school :mad:, I have no idea what it's like to have women around in my primary sphere, but I digress.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Toddz

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I'm an Emergency Room Nurse and prior to this was a first responder and firefighter. So I went from a male dominated field to a female dominated field. I see no difference in the way women respond to what I do. In fact, quite the opposite since I am in emergency medicine. I get a lot of comments like "I don't know how you do what you do" and questions like "what's the worst thing you've ever seen?" If I was a floor nurse then it might be different. But being on the front lines of situations that equate life or death I get a lot of respect from pretty much everyone.

Now if I was a makeup artist or hair dresser than probably yes...
 

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Doesn't matter what you do. SMV is directly and primarily influenced by attraction.

So if you're a nurse...Be the best nurse the world has ever seen.

Mind your mission.
 

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It doesn't matter. What could lead to "detriment" is if the man has a feminine personality (and is straight of course) but that's with every career.
 

zekko

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I'm sure there are some women who might find it a turnoff when a guy is in a traditionally female field. But both the job market and perceptions about this are changing with the times, so I wouldn't sweat it. I'm sure many woman would also look up to a guy who was a nurse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yap they are. We can love or no that fact, but simply that is a fact.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/05/men-in-nursing/526623/

On the one hand, being in field dominated by women should lead to a lot more social contacts (not necessarily dating a co-worker, but meeting her friends, etc.), but on the other hand, I could see being a detriment, as per this article:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/24/opinion/sunday/men-dont-want-to-be-nurses-their-wives-agree.html

I myself was in a very masculine career (engineering, and then programming), and going back through my sausage fest engineering college career, and before then an all-boy's school :mad:, I have no idea what it's like to have women around in my primary sphere, but I digress.
If he's nice in those environment yes . It will raise his estrogen. If he's a player in there he can thrive.
 
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