"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think marrying wifey with a lot of debt is a form of financial cucking before-the-fact?

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Funny thing is I used to valet at this high end restaurant where all the stars/celebrities/pro athletes used to go to. I drove Scottie's Range Rover back then and also Michael Jordan's MB S500. Scottie was a cheap azz mofo and I couldn't understand why until I figured out he had to support so many kids. LOL
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I mean it’s 2020 bro, who doesn’t have credit card debt? And 5,000 isn’t a **** ton of money. It’s people with 80 and 90k worth of credit card debt. 5-10k is really nothing.

if I ever got married it would be made clear: my bills are my bills, your bills are your bills and what we decide to pay together is our bills.

Example of Your/My bills: Car payment, Car insurance, Credit Card debr, Car repair.

Our Bills: Rent, Mortgage, Electric, Life/Health insurance

But if I wanted to marry a girl and she had 10,000 in debt that wouldn’t necessarily scare me off.
Unfortunately, that’s not the way it works in divorce court. Better get that into a prenuptial agreement.

It’s prudent to have a full financial disclosure discussion before getting engaged. Get it on the table and state your terms for the upcoming prenup.
 

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No dude, he wishes. He's got WAAAAYYYYY more than that unofficially. LOL.
Most of his championship years was paying child support or payouts to all his kids from all the ho's he's had sex with.
So he got 13 kids or something crazy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So he got 13 kids or something crazy?
Yep. I don't know the official count though.
I used to overhear a lot of conversations back in the day between his teammates when they came to eat.
 

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I mean it’s 2020 bro, who doesn’t have credit card debt? And 5,000 isn’t a **** ton of money. It’s people with 80 and 90k worth of credit card debt. 5-10k is really nothing.

if I ever got married it would be made clear: my bills are my bills, your bills are your bills and what we decide to pay together is our bills.

Example of Your/My bills: Car payment, Car insurance, Credit Card debr, Car repair.

Our Bills: Rent, Mortgage, Electric, Life/Health insurance

But if I wanted to marry a girl and she had 10,000 in debt that wouldn’t necessarily scare me off.
Respectfully, I disagree.

Debt is a massive red flag. Women are net consumers.

If a girl has any debt, she's downgraded to boot call. #next @ any liberal arts crap or women studies.

Disclaimer: my d won't suck itself. Throaty ftw
 
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