"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think marrying wifey with a lot of debt is a form of financial cucking before-the-fact?

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Funny thing is I used to valet at this high end restaurant where all the stars/celebrities/pro athletes used to go to. I drove Scottie's Range Rover back then and also Michael Jordan's MB S500. Scottie was a cheap azz mofo and I couldn't understand why until I figured out he had to support so many kids. LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I mean it’s 2020 bro, who doesn’t have credit card debt? And 5,000 isn’t a **** ton of money. It’s people with 80 and 90k worth of credit card debt. 5-10k is really nothing.

if I ever got married it would be made clear: my bills are my bills, your bills are your bills and what we decide to pay together is our bills.

Example of Your/My bills: Car payment, Car insurance, Credit Card debr, Car repair.

Our Bills: Rent, Mortgage, Electric, Life/Health insurance

But if I wanted to marry a girl and she had 10,000 in debt that wouldn’t necessarily scare me off.
Unfortunately, that’s not the way it works in divorce court. Better get that into a prenuptial agreement.

It’s prudent to have a full financial disclosure discussion before getting engaged. Get it on the table and state your terms for the upcoming prenup.
 

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No dude, he wishes. He's got WAAAAYYYYY more than that unofficially. LOL.
Most of his championship years was paying child support or payouts to all his kids from all the ho's he's had sex with.
So he got 13 kids or something crazy?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So he got 13 kids or something crazy?
Yep. I don't know the official count though.
I used to overhear a lot of conversations back in the day between his teammates when they came to eat.
 

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I mean it’s 2020 bro, who doesn’t have credit card debt? And 5,000 isn’t a **** ton of money. It’s people with 80 and 90k worth of credit card debt. 5-10k is really nothing.

if I ever got married it would be made clear: my bills are my bills, your bills are your bills and what we decide to pay together is our bills.

Example of Your/My bills: Car payment, Car insurance, Credit Card debr, Car repair.

Our Bills: Rent, Mortgage, Electric, Life/Health insurance

But if I wanted to marry a girl and she had 10,000 in debt that wouldn’t necessarily scare me off.
Respectfully, I disagree.

Debt is a massive red flag. Women are net consumers.

If a girl has any debt, she's downgraded to boot call. #next @ any liberal arts crap or women studies.

Disclaimer: my d won't suck itself. Throaty ftw
 
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