"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do you plan on staying single or marrying some day?

DjDreamer

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Originally posted by ogre
don't any of you guys want to have children and raise a family? I do. I thought that was the purpose of marriage.
You're right...

Marriage is a fantasy created so as to please the children...it's just like the tooth fairy and the easter bunny.

If you don't think it's a fantasy, just consider the marriage vow "till death do us part". We all know that is not a reality due to something call a divorce.

And raising a family is not my top priority...my top priority is to be happy/obtain satisfaction...I can be happy without having children running around my home breaking stuff...I can be happy without having some woman nag me to death about every petty issue thinking I'll stay married due to the children...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by DjDreamer

I can be happy without having some woman nag me to death about every petty issue thinking I'll stay married due to the children...
it is better to sleep out in the rain than to sleep with a nagging wife!
 

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It would take an amazing man, rope, duct tape and chloroform to EVER get me to the altar again...
 

DJDamage

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it is better to sleep out in the rain than to sleep with a nagging wife!
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I don't know about that, I know that at a certain point the rain will stop!

if we are already in the joking part of the thread here in one for you:

What is the difference between an attack by a Rottweiler and an attack by a nagging wife??

Answer: Eventually the Rottweiler will let go! lol
 

Jay Gatsby

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
It would take an amazing man, rope, duct tape and chloroform to EVER get me to the altar again...
I didn't know you had such a kinky side.:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm going to spend the next two years being a complete slut.

Then I'm going to start thinking about settling down and having kids, assuming my family jewels still work properly.
 

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Originally posted by Jay Gatsby
I didn't know you had such a kinky side.:D
lol...I'm just horribly terrified of committment.
 

Jay Gatsby

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
lol...I'm just horribly terrified of committment.
Join the club. Now you understand how men feel.
 

icecreaman

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Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
gonna spend my life fishing around the globe and having sex with the best hookers of different countries
Took the words right out of my mouth.
 

Chrispy

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would plan on marrying some day...why else date then? Unless one wants to be a player for all eternity?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Broham

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Originally posted by Chrispy
would plan on marrying some day...why else date then? Unless one wants to be a player for all eternity?

....and that's a bad thing how?? Hugh Hefner is my f'ing idol!
 

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I still feel an Alpha Male can never be complete without carrying on his genetic line. That is why we have sexuality in the first place. For this reason I believe a DJ should not only marry, but have many wives, concubines, and slave girls, who will bear many children, just as did Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob of the Old Testament.

Should a girl hint at the topic of marriage or children with me, I intend to set some ground rules and be very frank to avoid any misunderstandings. I would tell her the following:

"You will comfort me, love me, care for me, have sex with me, bear many children, and care for them until they are old enough to fly on their own. Then I will throw your sorry old menepausal a$$ out and start anew with a younger woman who can bear more children. I might letcha stay and help out around the house, IF you can behave yourself, but if you nag me, just once, I'll shoot ya....."
 

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"You will comfort me, love me, care for me, have sex with me, bear many children, and care for them until they are old enough to fly on their own. Then I will throw your sorry old menepausal a$$ out and start anew with a younger woman who can bear more children. I might letcha stay and help out around the house, IF you can behave yourself, but if you nag me, just once, I'll shoot ya....."
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That would only work if you are some sort of Arab Sheik and have yourself a heram or you live in Utah, other then that its not realistic scenerio.
 

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Marry my 'best friend'

have 3 children

live in the suburbs with a nice home

have 2 cars - maybe 3

good careers with stable comfortable income



There is no way I can picture myself at the age of 65 with no extended bloodline from me and my husband.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sexplicite

Your response to this shows EXACTLY what is wrong with women and marriage today

Your idea of the hollywood fairy tale ideal life is complete BS

I had the suburb, the three kids, the cars. It is total crap

Sounds more like a nightmare than a dream

God pity your future husband!

Dietzcoi
 

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Thanks for your support, Mr. God Squad

You are on the way to ruining your own life with your dogmatic following of a fairy tale (religion)

Good luck. Don't bother listening to people with experience. You'll be AFC your whole life, never wake up from your dream

Dietzcoi
 

MrCode

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I have the belief that marriage is primarily for the benefit of women and children (especially in America.) I told my older sister this and really pissed her off, hehehehe (but I don't care.)

I want to pass on my bloodline so will probably get married someday, but this will be a very thought out and careful decision, not something done out of passion or infatuation.

I do like the idea of being a sheik with a harem. I think Arab women are pretty hot actually, hehe. Too bad I'm a white American. Hmmm, maybe I'll just get rich and buy my own island like Mel Gibson. There I can have my harem of hot international girls. Yep, that will work.
 

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Im gonna go to every country and bang as many women as possible so as to create a global dynasty.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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