"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you hit on UGs?

Fenderules

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there is a differnce on "hitting on them" and making sorda just ****y funny talk with them. Your not necessarly hitting on them just being C&F, and friendly. If she has hot friends they will see that and naturally like your more and you have a better chance to score with them. But dont pretend you wanna **** the ugly, your just having fun and making new friends, thats all it has to be. You dont have to talk about ass slappin in ****. Then your as seen as a fun guy, tahts all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Jariel
Haha! Is this a personal experience? Sounds like a bad situation or a bad dream.
Neither, thank god. I just have a very active imagination, especially when it comes to creating scenarios.
 

Fenderules

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yeah you never know, but if a girl did that then she is obviously ****ed up.
 

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Damn i was just thinking about this the other day. In my approaches there always seems to be a UG with the HB and i seriously don't know what to do. I feel bad for blanking her so i sometimes give eye contact to the UG while im talking to the HB.. but still i just find it a waste of time making eye contact, coz my sole purpose should be macking on the HB and getting the number.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hell no!

I'm not wasting my time on some chick if I don't like her for whatever reason (i.e. she's ugly, or her personality is positively awful).

Ben
 

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Incidentally, why do ugly women always use the "barbie doll" comparison towards any slim, attractive woman like it's an insult? Barbie's hot!
Compared to the dolls they make nowadays, barbie is plain jane. Modern dolls look really slutty. Have you seen Bratz? The next generation of women will be so easy it'll be insane! Too bad I'll be too old for them by time they come around.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
Compared to the dolls they make nowadays, barbie is plain jane. Modern dolls look really slutty. Have you seen Bratz? The next generation of women will be so easy it'll be insane! Too bad I'll be too old for them by time they come around.
True...

I see the next generation filled with a bunch of fvck buddies.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Come on, these Bratz things may make women dress sexier, but it sure as hell won't make them easier. The nature of the game won't change, the sexiness in outfits will.

Anyway, I agree about not doing C&F on UG's. They will think they have arrived in heaven because some attractive, funny guy is showing interest in them. Sure, they will be at your mercy (plenty of free beers :p), but if not properly put in their place they'll probably end up trying to make a move on you which isn't quite what you want.

And, well... a UG can indeed turn into a HB, providing you've had enough alcohol. One more reason to keep the drinking to a minimum :D
 

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I think it's quite bad what I do. I don't even want to make 'friends' with a girl unless she is good looking. Sort of limits me a bit, because they may have hot friends. But I just can't do it, I see nothing interesting in them.
 

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Why would you even want to hit on UG's? That's pretty much the epitome of anti-DJ.

Basically, don't do it unless you're desperate for some nani. You end up selling yourself short.
 

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Originally posted by Rogerman
I only do it when sex is involved.

Same here only if they have a nice body. Don't matter if she have a **** wrecked face.

***** Has no face so dont matter (Only if she is like deformed or lower than a 3.5 then i won't.)
 

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I agree...

Butta face women (above 3 on the hotness scale) spike my interest...and for those of you who don't know what a butta face woman is, it's a woman that has everything on her looking good but the face...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I do.....cause when the booze is flowing and the smoke is risin and the hormones are going, sometimes ya just need to get laid. Done em' before and will do em again, and not afraid to admit it. UB will go all the way in the sack to please you, whatever you want, let your freak flag fly! LOL :D
 

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Friendly, but don't hit on 'em

I'm friendly to gals I don't find attractive, but I don't hit on 'em. Don't want to lead them on and disappoint them; they sure as hell have to deal with enough disappointment as it is.
 

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OK OK fellas hold up....
Bratz dont look sexy like posted above, they look slutty... can you pin the difference?? there's a big difference between sexy and slutty. Go to most clubs in Ft, Lauderdale and you find slutty.. go to a hot club in Fisher Island and you find.. classy.

About "butta face women" (ROFL) I call them brown-bag specials lol like a lunch special it gets you through your natural needs and aside from that, it's done..

This is the deal though, most hotties know they are hot.. period. So they know most guys will approach them because they are hot, they don't need the approval, the real hot ones already approve of themselves... THUS they have something that although they might like about themselves - their personality - it is also something that you can't see. You have to experience it and rate it according to how others experience it. So if she can believe that you dated another woman because of the way she is and not merely her looks, you'll be golden since you'll be not only already going out with her because of her looks(which she already knows..) but also because of the way she is....

The whole nine yards..

but then again, I guess my theory would only apply to the REALLY hot ones like an HB 8.5 and above.
 

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"There is no such thing as UGs, only not enough Vodka"

Old Russian saying

THen again, the Russian girls nowadays seem to be real hot...

DIetzcoi
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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