"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
do you go after ever chick you want?
- Thread starter killbill
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
1) HB9.5 - Perfect ass, body and gorgeous face, looks like a nice girl too... My No. 1 target
2) HB8.5 - Very classy, sexy, and intellectual looking. Also seems like a nice girl (by her look/actions). A plus: she sometimes hangs around with a group of guys I know...
3) HB8.5 - Sexy little blonde - popular in my town.
The reason I havent tried to game them yet?: I want to get my game so tight so my chances of a k/n/f close will be very good when I actually approach...
Heres hoping...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
But if she showing signs of interest and I am diggin her, why not?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
No. There are some women I won't go after:Originally posted by killbill
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
- A friend's girlfriend, or any girlfriend for that matter. She might be someone I want if she were single, but if it's a girlfriend to a friend it's not worth the drama that will result. Plus, if she were willing to leave him, what makes me think she won't she leave me in a similar matter later?
- A friend's love-interest. If he declares his interest first, it's best not to go after the woman because it'd probably make him upset. Not good.
Friends before women, always. At least in the beginning. Women are a dime a dozen, but a good friend is hard to come by.
Ben
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Semantics aside (I prefer to attract, rather than "go after" women, as such), the ones that top my list are the ones I think want me who I also want.