"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you go after ever chick you want?

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killbill

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???? me no but im learning. how about you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are about 3 ULTRA HBs (well, to me anyway!) living in my area that I really wanna go for some day, they are:

1) HB9.5 - Perfect ass, body and gorgeous face, looks like a nice girl too... My No. 1 target

2) HB8.5 - Very classy, sexy, and intellectual looking. Also seems like a nice girl (by her look/actions). A plus: she sometimes hangs around with a group of guys I know...

3) HB8.5 - Sexy little blonde - popular in my town.

The reason I havent tried to game them yet?: I want to get my game so tight so my chances of a k/n/f close will be very good when I actually approach...

Heres hoping...
 
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I can honestly say:

I go after anything and everything I want.

No reason not to do so.
 
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want is a realtive term... I may WANT to **** my friends smokin hot Girl, but.. i don't want to in the sense that I think I HAVE to have her, I just think she's hot

But if she showing signs of interest and I am diggin her, why not?
 
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Originally posted by killbill
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
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No. There are some women I won't go after:

- A friend's girlfriend, or any girlfriend for that matter. She might be someone I want if she were single, but if it's a girlfriend to a friend it's not worth the drama that will result. Plus, if she were willing to leave him, what makes me think she won't she leave me in a similar matter later?

- A friend's love-interest. If he declares his interest first, it's best not to go after the woman because it'd probably make him upset. Not good.


Friends before women, always. At least in the beginning. Women are a dime a dozen, but a good friend is hard to come by.


Ben
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Semantics aside (I prefer to attract, rather than "go after" women, as such), the ones that top my list are the ones I think want me who I also want.
 
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