"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
do you go after ever chick you want?
- Thread starter killbill
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
1) HB9.5 - Perfect ass, body and gorgeous face, looks like a nice girl too... My No. 1 target
2) HB8.5 - Very classy, sexy, and intellectual looking. Also seems like a nice girl (by her look/actions). A plus: she sometimes hangs around with a group of guys I know...
3) HB8.5 - Sexy little blonde - popular in my town.
The reason I havent tried to game them yet?: I want to get my game so tight so my chances of a k/n/f close will be very good when I actually approach...
Heres hoping...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
But if she showing signs of interest and I am diggin her, why not?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
No. There are some women I won't go after:Originally posted by killbill
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
- A friend's girlfriend, or any girlfriend for that matter. She might be someone I want if she were single, but if it's a girlfriend to a friend it's not worth the drama that will result. Plus, if she were willing to leave him, what makes me think she won't she leave me in a similar matter later?
- A friend's love-interest. If he declares his interest first, it's best not to go after the woman because it'd probably make him upset. Not good.
Friends before women, always. At least in the beginning. Women are a dime a dozen, but a good friend is hard to come by.
Ben
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Semantics aside (I prefer to attract, rather than "go after" women, as such), the ones that top my list are the ones I think want me who I also want.