"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
do you go after ever chick you want?
- Thread starter killbill
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
1) HB9.5 - Perfect ass, body and gorgeous face, looks like a nice girl too... My No. 1 target
2) HB8.5 - Very classy, sexy, and intellectual looking. Also seems like a nice girl (by her look/actions). A plus: she sometimes hangs around with a group of guys I know...
3) HB8.5 - Sexy little blonde - popular in my town.
The reason I havent tried to game them yet?: I want to get my game so tight so my chances of a k/n/f close will be very good when I actually approach...
Heres hoping...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
But if she showing signs of interest and I am diggin her, why not?
Abbott
Master Don Juan
No. There are some women I won't go after:Originally posted by killbill
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
- A friend's girlfriend, or any girlfriend for that matter. She might be someone I want if she were single, but if it's a girlfriend to a friend it's not worth the drama that will result. Plus, if she were willing to leave him, what makes me think she won't she leave me in a similar matter later?
- A friend's love-interest. If he declares his interest first, it's best not to go after the woman because it'd probably make him upset. Not good.
Friends before women, always. At least in the beginning. Women are a dime a dozen, but a good friend is hard to come by.
Ben
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Semantics aside (I prefer to attract, rather than "go after" women, as such), the ones that top my list are the ones I think want me who I also want.