"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

do you go after ever chick you want?

killbill

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2005
Messages
257
Reaction score
0
Age
39
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

silverwex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 27, 2003
Messages
1,306
Reaction score
5
Age
44
Location
Eire
There are about 3 ULTRA HBs (well, to me anyway!) living in my area that I really wanna go for some day, they are:

1) HB9.5 - Perfect ass, body and gorgeous face, looks like a nice girl too... My No. 1 target

2) HB8.5 - Very classy, sexy, and intellectual looking. Also seems like a nice girl (by her look/actions). A plus: she sometimes hangs around with a group of guys I know...

3) HB8.5 - Sexy little blonde - popular in my town.

The reason I havent tried to game them yet?: I want to get my game so tight so my chances of a k/n/f close will be very good when I actually approach...

Heres hoping...
 

SamePendo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2003
Messages
2,393
Reaction score
14
Location
At home
I can honestly say:

I go after anything and everything I want.

No reason not to do so.
 

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
want is a realtive term... I may WANT to **** my friends smokin hot Girl, but.. i don't want to in the sense that I think I HAVE to have her, I just think she's hot

But if she showing signs of interest and I am diggin her, why not?
 

Abbott

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2002
Messages
895
Reaction score
0
Location
St. Louis Area
Originally posted by killbill
???? me no but im learning. how about you?
No. There are some women I won't go after:

- A friend's girlfriend, or any girlfriend for that matter. She might be someone I want if she were single, but if it's a girlfriend to a friend it's not worth the drama that will result. Plus, if she were willing to leave him, what makes me think she won't she leave me in a similar matter later?

- A friend's love-interest. If he declares his interest first, it's best not to go after the woman because it'd probably make him upset. Not good.


Friends before women, always. At least in the beginning. Women are a dime a dozen, but a good friend is hard to come by.


Ben
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Bonhomme

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2002
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
16
Location
Land of the Ruins
NO

Semantics aside (I prefer to attract, rather than "go after" women, as such), the ones that top my list are the ones I think want me who I also want.
 
Top