I was just thinking that...This brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I was just thinking that...This brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I had the same exact feeling tbh, except instead of being a tranny, it could just be a girl who had some plastic surgery not too long ago, got bored, and wants to see what we all think. I actually worded my response very carefully so as to maximize the damage to her self-worth just in case it really is a chick’s account lolThis brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
well she knows that now.I had the same exact feeling tbh, except instead of being a tranny, it could just be a girl who had some plastic surgery not too long ago, got bored, and wants to see what we all think. I actually worded my response very carefully so as to maximize the damage to her self-worth just in case it really is a chick’s account lol
Ik. And it only pisses her off more because it was done on purpose lolwell she knows that now.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sepsis possibly from goin raw, but I know the type, she'd fvck well, but not be much in the way of affection.If that's not a dude, she looks like she has some kind of disease.
All that fake crap she got, would make me run away from her if she tried to approach me.How would you rate this brunette ? Do you find her hot ?
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly what I was afraid of.......trying to rate this "person",then OP comes back with,GOTCHA!!!......it's a DUDE!It's not a girl. It's a male.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Haha, nice oneHey rainman im with these during this mco.
ROFL.. Now im dryed out.. Mr. D couldnt Get up!
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Looks like a tranny. If you're into that sort of thing, knock your socks off.How would you rate this brunette ? Do you find her hot ?
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Its all about standard imo, if you have some you will notice and question why there is something that dont feel right about a women like this.I remember when I went out to a club a while back and the entire night, this one girl couldn't keep her eyes off and kept motioning me to come over. That girl resembled this one except she was asian. I didn't think much of it and stayed back as I always do. As my night was coming to an end, I noticed her one last time dancing with 4 or 5 guys, and she just kept staring. None of these were bad looking guys, all took care of themselves. Think jersey shore. She then gave in and came up asking "when are you gonna take me and start dancing with me?" her voice caught me off guard but didn't surprise me at the slightest. I could tell something was off. My one buddy who's in his 30's whispered to me "don't even think about it bro, that's a tranny". She walked away all feisty back to the group of guys who's faces filled with joy, only now they were smirking at me. My other buddy, who's in his mid 20's looked on and said "bro, she's soo hot". As my more knowledgeable friend told him that he just called a guy hot, my other buddy's face flushed and became as pale as the moon.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.