I was just thinking that...This brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was just thinking that...This brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I had the same exact feeling tbh, except instead of being a tranny, it could just be a girl who had some plastic surgery not too long ago, got bored, and wants to see what we all think. I actually worded my response very carefully so as to maximize the damage to her self-worth just in case it really is a chick’s account lolThis brings up a hypothetical situation here. If you were a male that recently did some type of gender reassignment, would you not post your pics on a mens forum and ask if ‘she’s’ hot ?
well she knows that now.I had the same exact feeling tbh, except instead of being a tranny, it could just be a girl who had some plastic surgery not too long ago, got bored, and wants to see what we all think. I actually worded my response very carefully so as to maximize the damage to her self-worth just in case it really is a chick’s account lol
Ik. And it only pisses her off more because it was done on purpose lolwell she knows that now.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Sepsis possibly from goin raw, but I know the type, she'd fvck well, but not be much in the way of affection.If that's not a dude, she looks like she has some kind of disease.
All that fake crap she got, would make me run away from her if she tried to approach me.How would you rate this brunette ? Do you find her hot ?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Exactly what I was afraid of.......trying to rate this "person",then OP comes back with,GOTCHA!!!......it's a DUDE!It's not a girl. It's a male.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Haha, nice oneHey rainman im with these during this mco.
ROFL.. Now im dryed out.. Mr. D couldnt Get up!
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Looks like a tranny. If you're into that sort of thing, knock your socks off.How would you rate this brunette ? Do you find her hot ?
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Its all about standard imo, if you have some you will notice and question why there is something that dont feel right about a women like this.I remember when I went out to a club a while back and the entire night, this one girl couldn't keep her eyes off and kept motioning me to come over. That girl resembled this one except she was asian. I didn't think much of it and stayed back as I always do. As my night was coming to an end, I noticed her one last time dancing with 4 or 5 guys, and she just kept staring. None of these were bad looking guys, all took care of themselves. Think jersey shore. She then gave in and came up asking "when are you gonna take me and start dancing with me?" her voice caught me off guard but didn't surprise me at the slightest. I could tell something was off. My one buddy who's in his 30's whispered to me "don't even think about it bro, that's a tranny". She walked away all feisty back to the group of guys who's faces filled with joy, only now they were smirking at me. My other buddy, who's in his mid 20's looked on and said "bro, she's soo hot". As my more knowledgeable friend told him that he just called a guy hot, my other buddy's face flushed and became as pale as the moon.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.