Josh Stiles
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When out in public people will say I look like a "quirky" actor.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you ever get told you look like an actor?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
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LarryLiesureSuit
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No. But if they did, I would say yes, and lie to get laid.
Dash Riprock
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Ron Jeremy! Love it!!
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Tom Cruise (then and now) and (especially) Paul Molitor when we were about the same age.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PeasantPlayer
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Vin Diesal/drake
Southbound29
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I've had 3 different chicks on POF tell me I look like Chris Pratt. I don't see it. Never gotten it from a chick face to face.
TheGambino
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Nah like a donkey All the time..
Leisuresuitlegend
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A young Robert Deniro. I don't see it though.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RangerMIke
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I get confused with the Trivago guy (Tim Williams) all the time. I wrote him and sent pictures to him a couple of years ago and complained that everyone confuses me with him. A few months later when he was blowing through town we met. Turns out we have A LOT in common, we both speak German, both went to the same college, sounded alike... about the same age. Only real difference is I'm a little bigger and about 3 inches taller, otherwise we could be twins. put glasses on this guy and it's pretty much me.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
The Duke
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I've been told I look like Chris Daughtry and Vin Diesel. One of the girls I dated was in love with Vin Diesel.
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sandres22
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It's really jokey. Familiar person told this sometimes. But I never mind. hehe!
marmel75
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In college I had a few people say I reminded them of Tom Cruise(even though I don't think I look anything like him) because of my hair...recently I have been told I remind them of the dude from the hangover(the cool teacher dude who takes their class money to the bachelor party--can't remember his name off hand)
raider87
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Bradley Cooper. Was voted the worlds sexiest man by whoever decides who the worlds sexiest man is. Congratulations.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.