Josh Stiles
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When out in public people will say I look like a "quirky" actor.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do you ever get told you look like an actor?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
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LarryLiesureSuit
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No. But if they did, I would say yes, and lie to get laid.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Ron Jeremy! Love it!!
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Tom Cruise (then and now) and (especially) Paul Molitor when we were about the same age.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PeasantPlayer
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Vin Diesal/drake
Southbound29
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I've had 3 different chicks on POF tell me I look like Chris Pratt. I don't see it. Never gotten it from a chick face to face.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Nah like a donkey All the time..
Leisuresuitlegend
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A young Robert Deniro. I don't see it though.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I get confused with the Trivago guy (Tim Williams) all the time. I wrote him and sent pictures to him a couple of years ago and complained that everyone confuses me with him. A few months later when he was blowing through town we met. Turns out we have A LOT in common, we both speak German, both went to the same college, sounded alike... about the same age. Only real difference is I'm a little bigger and about 3 inches taller, otherwise we could be twins. put glasses on this guy and it's pretty much me.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
The Duke
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I've been told I look like Chris Daughtry and Vin Diesel. One of the girls I dated was in love with Vin Diesel.
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sandres22
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It's really jokey. Familiar person told this sometimes. But I never mind. hehe!
marmel75
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In college I had a few people say I reminded them of Tom Cruise(even though I don't think I look anything like him) because of my hair...recently I have been told I remind them of the dude from the hangover(the cool teacher dude who takes their class money to the bachelor party--can't remember his name off hand)
raider87
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Bradley Cooper. Was voted the worlds sexiest man by whoever decides who the worlds sexiest man is. Congratulations.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.