Josh Stiles
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When out in public people will say I look like a "quirky" actor.
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do you ever get told you look like an actor?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
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LarryLiesureSuit
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No. But if they did, I would say yes, and lie to get laid.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Ron Jeremy! Love it!!
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Tom Cruise (then and now) and (especially) Paul Molitor when we were about the same age.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PeasantPlayer
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Vin Diesal/drake
Southbound29
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I've had 3 different chicks on POF tell me I look like Chris Pratt. I don't see it. Never gotten it from a chick face to face.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Nah like a donkey All the time..
Leisuresuitlegend
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A young Robert Deniro. I don't see it though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I get confused with the Trivago guy (Tim Williams) all the time. I wrote him and sent pictures to him a couple of years ago and complained that everyone confuses me with him. A few months later when he was blowing through town we met. Turns out we have A LOT in common, we both speak German, both went to the same college, sounded alike... about the same age. Only real difference is I'm a little bigger and about 3 inches taller, otherwise we could be twins. put glasses on this guy and it's pretty much me.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
The Duke
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I've been told I look like Chris Daughtry and Vin Diesel. One of the girls I dated was in love with Vin Diesel.
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sandres22
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It's really jokey. Familiar person told this sometimes. But I never mind. hehe!
marmel75
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In college I had a few people say I reminded them of Tom Cruise(even though I don't think I look anything like him) because of my hair...recently I have been told I remind them of the dude from the hangover(the cool teacher dude who takes their class money to the bachelor party--can't remember his name off hand)
raider87
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Bradley Cooper. Was voted the worlds sexiest man by whoever decides who the worlds sexiest man is. Congratulations.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.