Josh Stiles
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When out in public people will say I look like a "quirky" actor.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you ever get told you look like an actor?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
LarryLiesureSuit
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No. But if they did, I would say yes, and lie to get laid.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Ron Jeremy! Love it!!
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Tom Cruise (then and now) and (especially) Paul Molitor when we were about the same age.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PeasantPlayer
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Vin Diesal/drake
Southbound29
Don Juan
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I've had 3 different chicks on POF tell me I look like Chris Pratt. I don't see it. Never gotten it from a chick face to face.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Nah like a donkey All the time..
Leisuresuitlegend
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A young Robert Deniro. I don't see it though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I get confused with the Trivago guy (Tim Williams) all the time. I wrote him and sent pictures to him a couple of years ago and complained that everyone confuses me with him. A few months later when he was blowing through town we met. Turns out we have A LOT in common, we both speak German, both went to the same college, sounded alike... about the same age. Only real difference is I'm a little bigger and about 3 inches taller, otherwise we could be twins. put glasses on this guy and it's pretty much me.
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0931807/mediaviewer/rm2068520448
The Duke
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I've been told I look like Chris Daughtry and Vin Diesel. One of the girls I dated was in love with Vin Diesel.
https://www.google.com/search?q=chr...J_4Cw#imgrc=3rUAsF1QovIgpM:&spf=1504186148882
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sandres22
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It's really jokey. Familiar person told this sometimes. But I never mind. hehe!
marmel75
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In college I had a few people say I reminded them of Tom Cruise(even though I don't think I look anything like him) because of my hair...recently I have been told I remind them of the dude from the hangover(the cool teacher dude who takes their class money to the bachelor party--can't remember his name off hand)
raider87
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Bradley Cooper. Was voted the worlds sexiest man by whoever decides who the worlds sexiest man is. Congratulations.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.