RogueWarrior
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Has a woman ever neg-hitted you and if so how? If she does, is that an indicator of her interest level?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do women neg-hit men?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Walk this Way
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From my experience, unless it's obviously a joke or a flirt, a neg-hit isn't a good sign.
Ol'BlueEyes
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not in my experience
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Attractive women know how to attract men. They appeal to our sexuality. Neg hitting us won't really do that, so I rarely get neg-hitted.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
drumr2
Don Juan
What's a neg-hit anyway?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.