RogueWarrior
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Has a woman ever neg-hitted you and if so how? If she does, is that an indicator of her interest level?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do women neg-hit men?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Walk this Way
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From my experience, unless it's obviously a joke or a flirt, a neg-hit isn't a good sign.
Ol'BlueEyes
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not in my experience
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Attractive women know how to attract men. They appeal to our sexuality. Neg hitting us won't really do that, so I rarely get neg-hitted.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
drumr2
Don Juan
What's a neg-hit anyway?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.