"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do women neg-hit men?

RogueWarrior

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Has a woman ever neg-hitted you and if so how? If she does, is that an indicator of her interest level?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Walk this Way

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From my experience, unless it's obviously a joke or a flirt, a neg-hit isn't a good sign.
 

Ol'BlueEyes

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not in my experience

Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
 

Porky

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Attractive women know how to attract men. They appeal to our sexuality. Neg hitting us won't really do that, so I rarely get neg-hitted.

I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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