RogueWarrior
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Has a woman ever neg-hitted you and if so how? If she does, is that an indicator of her interest level?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do women neg-hit men?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Walk this Way
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From my experience, unless it's obviously a joke or a flirt, a neg-hit isn't a good sign.
Ol'BlueEyes
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not in my experience
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Unless they're trying to be cruel, I don't think so.
Ever notice that women (unless they're total *****es or completely drunk) go out of their way to make sure everyone else likes them? Last thing they want is someone talking ill about them.
Attractive women know how to attract men. They appeal to our sexuality. Neg hitting us won't really do that, so I rarely get neg-hitted.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
I do know a couple of women who I can only stand to talk to a couple of times a week because they enjoy giving neg hits. It gets annoying when it degrades to flat out insults.
drumr2
Don Juan
What's a neg-hit anyway?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.