"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do women lie about their virginity?

SeymourCake

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Have you ever known women who lied about their virginity?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seethehoop

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Women don't lie, they just let their emotions lead and say whatever reflects their emotional state at that time. Female logic! Its not a lie just a state of mind ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends on the woman, I think. As a whole, I would say that it's not something that they care enough about to lie for, unless they have something to gain. In my experience, women have been pretty truthful in that regard.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Have you ever known women who lied about their virginity?
Nah, bro. But I don't really hang out with virgins.

Just the thought of someone in my age group being a virgin creeps me out.
 

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Girl says to you "I lost it at 20 and have only been with 3 guys"

The honest answer is -4 to age and +10 on the guy count, usually.
 

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Iceberg said:
Nah, bro. But I don't really hang out with virgins.

Just the thought of someone in my age group being a virgin creeps me out.
why?
 

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Upside said:
Girl says to you "I lost it at 20 and have only been with 3 guys"

The honest answer is -4 to age and +10 on the guy count, usually.
Pretty much.

"I've been with x guys." = I officially (publicly) had x serious relationships. Club bathroom hookups with the tattooed guy, vacation sex with the tall foriegn guy with the hot accent, frat party hookups, and going home with a bartender on Thursday night does not count towards the total.

The biggest 50 yo cougar slore I know insists she's only been with two guys. She's been married twice.

Do women lie about virginity? Maybe a few young ones might if they are pretending to be a good girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eternal_water said:
It just seems abnormal to me. Sex is a very normal and natural thing. Food, water, sleep, sex. How could an attractive and emotionally-healthy person go without sex deep into their 20's and early 30's?

I can understand if there are religious reasons. But otherwise, it just seems odd to me.
 

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Iceberg said:
It just seems abnormal to me. Sex is a very normal and natural thing. Food, water, sleep, sex. How could an attractive and emotionally-healthy person go without sex deep into their 20's and early 30's?

I can understand if there are religious reasons. But otherwise, it just seems odd to me.
I can understand if it's a guy. Some guys really do struggle to get laid.

But women have no excuse. A woman in that age range is a virgin by choice, whether it's a religious thing or she's just really picky.
 

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Iceberg said:
It just seems abnormal to me. Sex is a very normal and natural thing. Food, water, sleep, sex. How could an attractive and emotionally-healthy person go without sex deep into their 20's and early 30's?
You are totally right, but are assuming everyone has the same game you do. Food is a business, water is a business, sleep is solo act. Sex requires consent within 2 parties, it's not like buying a chocolate bar at 7-11. It's part of a game and how well you play.

But yeah, virgin in 30s, brutal.
 

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I once dated a Catholic girl who freaked out when I tried to have sex with her, saying it was a 'mortal sin' and I was an awful person for even thinking of it.

Two weeks later she invited herself over and we did it...she admitted it wasn't her first time either. Girls are crazy, what can I say.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All women lie. They lie about a lot of things. Then again, men lie and say whatever to get with a girl.

Women prefer exciting lies over boring truths.

Case closed.
 

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You are totally right, but are assuming everyone has the same game you do. Food is a business, water is a business, sleep is solo act. Sex requires consent within 2 parties, it's not like buying a chocolate bar at 7-11. It's part of a game and how well you play.

But yeah, virgin in 30s, brutal.
in a lot of countries you can buy sex too
 
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