"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do we really need women for anything other than sex?

theunflushables

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Ehh...I don't know. I've got this semi maybe thing going on with this girl (we both want it, just not the time). Anyways, there is use for her. She knows a lot about cars which is awesome because I only know how to change oil and tires. She knows a lot about photography. Good for me as an aspiring photographer. And yeah any other guy might know that stuff, but I'm not going to sleep with him. Its a case by case basis really.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm with theunflushables on this, sure the furry cheque book is the real payload but let's not forget all the other sh!t we/I need them for.

1.Making sandwich's
2.Cleaning house
3.Spooning (beats electric blanket or hot water bottle)
4.Buying me stuff (they do love that gift giving thingy)
5.Picking me up out of gutter at 5am
6.Complimenting me/stroking ego (guys never compliment as much as chicks)
7.Lending money
8.And the obvious awesome intimacy that only birds can provide

This is just a few, I could go deeper.


If it's just sex and only sex you think she can provide then I think your wasting her potential.
 

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I'm with theunflushables on this, sure the furry cheque book is the real payload but let's not forget all the other sh!t we/I need them for.

1.Making sandwich's
2.Cleaning house
3.Spooning (beats electric blanket or hot water bottle)
4.Buying me stuff (they do love that gift giving thingy)
5.Picking me up out of gutter at 5am
6.Complimenting me/stroking ego (guys never compliment as much as chicks)
7.Lending money
8.And the obvious awesome intimacy that only birds can provide
I hope you're joking. If this is what DJism is all about, then I'm gonna run for the hills.
 

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I think he views your take on DJism as misogyny t!ttyman.

As for me I think you are on point as usual.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you mean?
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe that devaluing women helps anyone. These kinds of beliefs are responsible for the morons who'll go out into the field and think that they'll get laid by disrespecting women. It's not like a woman's pvssy gets wet whenever she hears a man say "get back in the kitchen b*tch!" There are men out there who respect women and get laid! What a concept!

That may not what you've directly said in your post, but I get the strong feeling that people are reading it and interpreting it in that way. Next thing you know, you'll have a bunch of people using "hold my drink b*tch!" as a pick-up line, like they're Rick James.
 

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I don't even want to have sex until I'm married. I'm only in relationships at all for the marriage that I'm hoping one of them will eventually result in.
 

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The Deacon said:
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe that devaluing women helps anyone. These kinds of beliefs are responsible for the morons who'll go out into the field and think that they'll get laid by disrespecting women. It's not like a woman's pvssy gets wet whenever she hears a man say "get back in the kitchen b*tch!" There are men out there who respect women and get laid! What a concept!

That may not what you've directly said in your post, but I get the strong feeling that people are reading it and interpreting it in that way. Next thing you know, you'll have a bunch of people using "hold my drink b*tch!" as a pick-up line, like they're Rick James.
WOW.

TheDeacon said:
Call me old fashioned
Going by that...whatever the fvck it was, I'd call you anything BUT "old fashioned".

KontrollerX said:
I think he views your take on DJism as misogyny t!ttyman.
Oh,sh!t there goes my sleep tonight.
 

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Oh,sh!t there goes my sleep tonight.
Oh no! Sarcasm from a hot-shot in an internet forum about picking up chicks? What do I do? How do I gain your approval? I want it oh-so-bad. Try writing an actual rebuttal to an argument so that I think you're something other than some guy trying to act tough over the internet.
 

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Oh no! Sarcasm from a hot-shot in an internet forum about picking up chicks? What do I do? How do I gain your approval? I want it oh-so-bad. Try writing an actual rebuttal to an argument so that I think you're something other than some guy trying to act tough over the internet.
I got nothin, you win. :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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umm
its called a life long lasting friendship, someone to wipe your ass when you can't think straight @ 75. Someone who still loves you when your little d1ck can't get it up anymore. Someone who holds your hand when you are sick on your bed from the cold and to make you soup.


bunch of high school kids who haven't grown up yet.
 

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The "I'm a real man I don't need wominz for anything other than pvssy, rawr" attitude on this board is kinda pathetic. Who doesn't want a good woman by their side? Especially down the road.
 
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