"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do we really need women for anything other than sex?

theunflushables

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Ehh...I don't know. I've got this semi maybe thing going on with this girl (we both want it, just not the time). Anyways, there is use for her. She knows a lot about cars which is awesome because I only know how to change oil and tires. She knows a lot about photography. Good for me as an aspiring photographer. And yeah any other guy might know that stuff, but I'm not going to sleep with him. Its a case by case basis really.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm with theunflushables on this, sure the furry cheque book is the real payload but let's not forget all the other sh!t we/I need them for.

1.Making sandwich's
2.Cleaning house
3.Spooning (beats electric blanket or hot water bottle)
4.Buying me stuff (they do love that gift giving thingy)
5.Picking me up out of gutter at 5am
6.Complimenting me/stroking ego (guys never compliment as much as chicks)
7.Lending money
8.And the obvious awesome intimacy that only birds can provide

This is just a few, I could go deeper.


If it's just sex and only sex you think she can provide then I think your wasting her potential.
 

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I'm with theunflushables on this, sure the furry cheque book is the real payload but let's not forget all the other sh!t we/I need them for.

1.Making sandwich's
2.Cleaning house
3.Spooning (beats electric blanket or hot water bottle)
4.Buying me stuff (they do love that gift giving thingy)
5.Picking me up out of gutter at 5am
6.Complimenting me/stroking ego (guys never compliment as much as chicks)
7.Lending money
8.And the obvious awesome intimacy that only birds can provide
I hope you're joking. If this is what DJism is all about, then I'm gonna run for the hills.
 

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I think he views your take on DJism as misogyny t!ttyman.

As for me I think you are on point as usual.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you mean?
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe that devaluing women helps anyone. These kinds of beliefs are responsible for the morons who'll go out into the field and think that they'll get laid by disrespecting women. It's not like a woman's pvssy gets wet whenever she hears a man say "get back in the kitchen b*tch!" There are men out there who respect women and get laid! What a concept!

That may not what you've directly said in your post, but I get the strong feeling that people are reading it and interpreting it in that way. Next thing you know, you'll have a bunch of people using "hold my drink b*tch!" as a pick-up line, like they're Rick James.
 

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I don't even want to have sex until I'm married. I'm only in relationships at all for the marriage that I'm hoping one of them will eventually result in.
 

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The Deacon said:
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe that devaluing women helps anyone. These kinds of beliefs are responsible for the morons who'll go out into the field and think that they'll get laid by disrespecting women. It's not like a woman's pvssy gets wet whenever she hears a man say "get back in the kitchen b*tch!" There are men out there who respect women and get laid! What a concept!

That may not what you've directly said in your post, but I get the strong feeling that people are reading it and interpreting it in that way. Next thing you know, you'll have a bunch of people using "hold my drink b*tch!" as a pick-up line, like they're Rick James.
WOW.

TheDeacon said:
Call me old fashioned
Going by that...whatever the fvck it was, I'd call you anything BUT "old fashioned".

KontrollerX said:
I think he views your take on DJism as misogyny t!ttyman.
Oh,sh!t there goes my sleep tonight.
 

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Oh,sh!t there goes my sleep tonight.
Oh no! Sarcasm from a hot-shot in an internet forum about picking up chicks? What do I do? How do I gain your approval? I want it oh-so-bad. Try writing an actual rebuttal to an argument so that I think you're something other than some guy trying to act tough over the internet.
 

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Oh no! Sarcasm from a hot-shot in an internet forum about picking up chicks? What do I do? How do I gain your approval? I want it oh-so-bad. Try writing an actual rebuttal to an argument so that I think you're something other than some guy trying to act tough over the internet.
I got nothin, you win. :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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umm
its called a life long lasting friendship, someone to wipe your ass when you can't think straight @ 75. Someone who still loves you when your little d1ck can't get it up anymore. Someone who holds your hand when you are sick on your bed from the cold and to make you soup.


bunch of high school kids who haven't grown up yet.
 

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The "I'm a real man I don't need wominz for anything other than pvssy, rawr" attitude on this board is kinda pathetic. Who doesn't want a good woman by their side? Especially down the road.
 
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