HaleyBaron
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do the opposite of this picture.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RangerMIke
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"I'm proud of you." Say this only when you really mean it and your girl actually does something worthy of praise.
"I can't believe you are mine." Say this ONLY if she also thinks she is lucky as well.
"You're right: I'm wrong." Say this ONLY when she is really right... say it once and do not grovel.
"You can do it, baby." Say this only if she supports you as well.
"I don't know where this extra cat came from, but she fits in great and needs lots of friends." Never say this.
RickTheToad
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If she did something worthy of being proud of, promotion, new job, amazing bj, etc. Nothing wrong with saying I'm proud of her.
Modern Man Advice
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2 and 3 are definitely off. Telling someone you're genuinely proud of them and admire them for it, isn't much of a bad thing. At least for us.
Our two cents.
Modern Man Advice
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Romanemp22
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No guy will say that cat sh1t, wtf
EyeBRollin
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I agree. Bullet point 1 is perfectly acceptable in a LTR.
Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
coyote_astro
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Cringe
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where are the threads like from back from 2000ish? Why do I have to read this MGTOW garbage? Why Tips section is full of trash that does not belong in it? @SoSuave.com
ThisIsSparta
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Thats what my wife says.....Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
...... and its still an uphill battle to keep her in line every day.