HaleyBaron
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do the opposite of this picture.
- Thread starter HaleyBaron
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
"I'm proud of you." Say this only when you really mean it and your girl actually does something worthy of praise.
"I can't believe you are mine." Say this ONLY if she also thinks she is lucky as well.
"You're right: I'm wrong." Say this ONLY when she is really right... say it once and do not grovel.
"You can do it, baby." Say this only if she supports you as well.
"I don't know where this extra cat came from, but she fits in great and needs lots of friends." Never say this.
RickTheToad
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If she did something worthy of being proud of, promotion, new job, amazing bj, etc. Nothing wrong with saying I'm proud of her.
Modern Man Advice
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2 and 3 are definitely off. Telling someone you're genuinely proud of them and admire them for it, isn't much of a bad thing. At least for us.
Our two cents.
Modern Man Advice
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Romanemp22
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No guy will say that cat sh1t, wtf
EyeBRollin
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I agree. Bullet point 1 is perfectly acceptable in a LTR.
Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
coyote_astro
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Cringe
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Where are the threads like from back from 2000ish? Why do I have to read this MGTOW garbage? Why Tips section is full of trash that does not belong in it? @SoSuave.com
ThisIsSparta
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Thats what my wife says.....Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
...... and its still an uphill battle to keep her in line every day.