HaleyBaron
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do the opposite of this picture.
- Thread starter HaleyBaron
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
"I'm proud of you." Say this only when you really mean it and your girl actually does something worthy of praise.
"I can't believe you are mine." Say this ONLY if she also thinks she is lucky as well.
"You're right: I'm wrong." Say this ONLY when she is really right... say it once and do not grovel.
"You can do it, baby." Say this only if she supports you as well.
"I don't know where this extra cat came from, but she fits in great and needs lots of friends." Never say this.
RickTheToad
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If she did something worthy of being proud of, promotion, new job, amazing bj, etc. Nothing wrong with saying I'm proud of her.
Modern Man Advice
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2 and 3 are definitely off. Telling someone you're genuinely proud of them and admire them for it, isn't much of a bad thing. At least for us.
Our two cents.
Modern Man Advice
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Romanemp22
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No guy will say that cat sh1t, wtf
EyeBRollin
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I agree. Bullet point 1 is perfectly acceptable in a LTR.
Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
"I'm proud of you."
"I can't believe you're mine."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"You make me feel soooo gooood."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"What can I cook for you for dinner tonight?"
"Can I get a beer for you?"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"What do you want me to pickup for the football game?"
"I picked up your favorite fishing bait for you."
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
coyote_astro
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Cringe
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Where are the threads like from back from 2000ish? Why do I have to read this MGTOW garbage? Why Tips section is full of trash that does not belong in it? @SoSuave.com
ThisIsSparta
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Thats what my wife says.....Marry a girl who says things like:
"I'm proud of you."
"You're right, I was wrong."
"You can do it baby."
"I want you to ravage me anytime you want"
"When do you want to go to the gun range?"
"I workout frequently."
"I took some time off work so I can go to the car show with you."
...... and its still an uphill battle to keep her in line every day.