Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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do some guys not want women sexually until after teens?

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Hoping someone knew- I have a good friend who doesn't like to persue women sexually or talk about them sexually. He's ****y for a skinny smart kid and is into computers and all that and is motivated with persuing his interests.

I don't think he's gay (or is he?) because I got him drunk the other night and took him to hang out with four girls and he ended up carrying one in the water and kissing her... but the next day when he was sober he showed no interest and when I came back with my girl after leaving him he said he never wants to see em again.

WTF I'm confused I want to understand my good friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wasn't interested in having sex until I got to college but I was always interested in girls.
 

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Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).


Yeah def. When was was younger (like real younger, around 14), I was REAL shy around girls!!! And I mean REAL SHY!! A few of my friends were like WTF, why dont u talk about girls? blah blah blah. Then when I got drunk I would be picking up heaps of girls. Took me until about 16 to start to get over my fear. Now years later, its fukcing hilarious to think back on those days, those same friends who used to say that to me are now the ones watching me take all the girls from the room!!! lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks guys, I'll keep trying to help him out and help him not be so insecure.
 

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LMAO I just looked up this old post. He was gay.
 

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I think it's just funny you came back 2 years later to actually say that. Good stuff.
 
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