"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do some guys not want women sexually until after teens?

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Hoping someone knew- I have a good friend who doesn't like to persue women sexually or talk about them sexually. He's ****y for a skinny smart kid and is into computers and all that and is motivated with persuing his interests.

I don't think he's gay (or is he?) because I got him drunk the other night and took him to hang out with four girls and he ended up carrying one in the water and kissing her... but the next day when he was sober he showed no interest and when I came back with my girl after leaving him he said he never wants to see em again.

WTF I'm confused I want to understand my good friend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wasn't interested in having sex until I got to college but I was always interested in girls.
 
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Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
 
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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
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Yeah def. When was was younger (like real younger, around 14), I was REAL shy around girls!!! And I mean REAL SHY!! A few of my friends were like WTF, why dont u talk about girls? blah blah blah. Then when I got drunk I would be picking up heaps of girls. Took me until about 16 to start to get over my fear. Now years later, its fukcing hilarious to think back on those days, those same friends who used to say that to me are now the ones watching me take all the girls from the room!!! lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks guys, I'll keep trying to help him out and help him not be so insecure.
 
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LMAO I just looked up this old post. He was gay.
 
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I think it's just funny you came back 2 years later to actually say that. Good stuff.
 
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