"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do some guys not want women sexually until after teens?

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Hoping someone knew- I have a good friend who doesn't like to persue women sexually or talk about them sexually. He's ****y for a skinny smart kid and is into computers and all that and is motivated with persuing his interests.

I don't think he's gay (or is he?) because I got him drunk the other night and took him to hang out with four girls and he ended up carrying one in the water and kissing her... but the next day when he was sober he showed no interest and when I came back with my girl after leaving him he said he never wants to see em again.

WTF I'm confused I want to understand my good friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wasn't interested in having sex until I got to college but I was always interested in girls.
 
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Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
 
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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
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Yeah def. When was was younger (like real younger, around 14), I was REAL shy around girls!!! And I mean REAL SHY!! A few of my friends were like WTF, why dont u talk about girls? blah blah blah. Then when I got drunk I would be picking up heaps of girls. Took me until about 16 to start to get over my fear. Now years later, its fukcing hilarious to think back on those days, those same friends who used to say that to me are now the ones watching me take all the girls from the room!!! lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks guys, I'll keep trying to help him out and help him not be so insecure.
 
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LMAO I just looked up this old post. He was gay.
 
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I think it's just funny you came back 2 years later to actually say that. Good stuff.
 
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