"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do some guys not want women sexually until after teens?

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Hoping someone knew- I have a good friend who doesn't like to persue women sexually or talk about them sexually. He's ****y for a skinny smart kid and is into computers and all that and is motivated with persuing his interests.

I don't think he's gay (or is he?) because I got him drunk the other night and took him to hang out with four girls and he ended up carrying one in the water and kissing her... but the next day when he was sober he showed no interest and when I came back with my girl after leaving him he said he never wants to see em again.

WTF I'm confused I want to understand my good friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wasn't interested in having sex until I got to college but I was always interested in girls.
 

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Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).


Yeah def. When was was younger (like real younger, around 14), I was REAL shy around girls!!! And I mean REAL SHY!! A few of my friends were like WTF, why dont u talk about girls? blah blah blah. Then when I got drunk I would be picking up heaps of girls. Took me until about 16 to start to get over my fear. Now years later, its fukcing hilarious to think back on those days, those same friends who used to say that to me are now the ones watching me take all the girls from the room!!! lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks guys, I'll keep trying to help him out and help him not be so insecure.
 

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LMAO I just looked up this old post. He was gay.
 

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I think it's just funny you came back 2 years later to actually say that. Good stuff.
 
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