"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do some guys not want women sexually until after teens?

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Hoping someone knew- I have a good friend who doesn't like to persue women sexually or talk about them sexually. He's ****y for a skinny smart kid and is into computers and all that and is motivated with persuing his interests.

I don't think he's gay (or is he?) because I got him drunk the other night and took him to hang out with four girls and he ended up carrying one in the water and kissing her... but the next day when he was sober he showed no interest and when I came back with my girl after leaving him he said he never wants to see em again.

WTF I'm confused I want to understand my good friend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wasn't interested in having sex until I got to college but I was always interested in girls.
 
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Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
 
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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Doesn't sound to me like he's gay, just that he's massively insecure. Computers are a huge crutch for insecure people, I wouldn't be surprised if he had hundreds of girls on his buddy lists... The ****iness is more than likely a front, if he was as relaxed as he puts on, he wouldn't have any problem with maintaining a friendship/relationship with (a) girl(s).
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Yeah def. When was was younger (like real younger, around 14), I was REAL shy around girls!!! And I mean REAL SHY!! A few of my friends were like WTF, why dont u talk about girls? blah blah blah. Then when I got drunk I would be picking up heaps of girls. Took me until about 16 to start to get over my fear. Now years later, its fukcing hilarious to think back on those days, those same friends who used to say that to me are now the ones watching me take all the girls from the room!!! lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks guys, I'll keep trying to help him out and help him not be so insecure.
 
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LMAO I just looked up this old post. He was gay.
 
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I think it's just funny you came back 2 years later to actually say that. Good stuff.
 
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