Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Example: Eminem?Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
GoldVikingKing said:Yup. So true. We do it to ourselves, we have control over our wall (for the most part).
Thats why women want to brain wash male children to be blue pill, it makes them tame and easy to manipulate. Funny how womens version of equality is not opportunities to better themselves, but instead they want to bring men down to their level.
It's a womans goal to avoid the wall (hence make up, when they are ugly or old) and a mans goal to destroy the wall (not being beta). Think about it, why do you think women use so much make up when they get older, and try to brainwash men into thinking they have issues for liking youthful women.
Its really twisted, women dont want equality in the sense of having to work hard to get up to mens level, they just want to bring men down.
Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.Maximummax said:Example: Eminem?
If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.Desdinova said:Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If all of those women are living off Social Security checks, they'd have no younger men.Newby 15 said:If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?dasein said:Yeah, I would say it's probably 70. I have a couple of mid 60s friends who work out, have kept in shape and still pull women under 30. Maybe when they turn 70 they will keep it up and prove me wrong.
Total apples and oranges. Women can always find a lay no matter how fat or old due to alcohol and betas, but they passed the wall of attracting average and above quality men long ago, and would have immense problems forming a relationship with young men unless they were loaded. Not so men. There are far more 20+ age gaps male older than female than female older than male.evan12 said:So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?