Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do red pill men eventually hit the wall?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Desdinova
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Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
VikingKing
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Desdinova said:
Yup. So true. We do it to ourselves, we have control over our wall (for the most part).
Thats why women want to brain wash male children to be blue pill, it makes them tame and easy to manipulate. Funny how womens version of equality is not opportunities to better themselves, but instead they want to bring men down to their level.
It's a womans goal to avoid the wall (hence make up, when they are ugly or old) and a mans goal to destroy the wall (not being beta). Think about it, why do you think women use so much make up when they get older, and try to brainwash men into thinking they have issues for liking youthful women.
Its really twisted, women dont want equality in the sense of having to work hard to get up to mens level, they just want to bring men down.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Example: Eminem?Desdinova said:
Men have no expiration date.. provided they don't make stupid decisions in their youth. This is why I preach focusing on health, education, freedom, etc. Women will always be there. No reason to chase them like you're running out of time. Most women walking around today suffer from mental illness and are not fit for any type of commitment beyond a few years.
Once a man experiences abundance.. he realizes how easy it is to bring women into his life AND how easy it is to replace them. Women are simply always there. Just don't let them f*ck you over and you'll be fine until old age. So I don't understand the thirst and co-dependence of desperate blue pill betas.
It takes either extreme stupidity or severe emotional frailty to be blue pill.
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Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
"Men have no expiration date.. provided they don't make stupid decisions in their youth. This is why I preach focusing on health, education, freedom, etc. Women will always be there. No reason to chase them like you're running out of time. Most women walking around today suffer from mental illness and are not fit for any type of commitment beyond a few years."....You are wise beyond your years...Confidence is everything!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
If all of those women are living off Social Security checks, they'd have no younger men.Newby 15 said:
The decline is just not as sharp as womens'. I don't really think womens' is a "wall" either. More like a slide. A fast, greased slide that drops them from highly f*ckable in their 20s to washed up in their 30s and essentially unf*ckable in their 40s.
But to think that men can bang any young chick at any geriatric age is delusional. Even if you're throwing out a sh*t-ton of cash, the vast majority of chicks will want nothing to do with you when you remind them of gramps.
Tictac
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I don't think that's sour grapes.
Other than the packaging and some 'remember when' moments, I have little to no interest in women much under the age of 50. And whole there are not plenty of decent women at that age, it's worth it to find them and I'm lucky enough to do so regularly.
'Grey game' is different. And not too shabby either.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
I do so agree with you...I also find the Older Women better in the sack,what about you?
Tictac
Banned
Women in full are the BEST in the sack.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Total apples and oranges. Women can always find a lay no matter how fat or old due to alcohol and betas, but they passed the wall of attracting average and above quality men long ago, and would have immense problems forming a relationship with young men unless they were loaded. Not so men. There are far more 20+ age gaps male older than female than female older than male.evan12 said: