You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Example: Eminem?Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
GoldVikingKing said:Yup. So true. We do it to ourselves, we have control over our wall (for the most part).
Thats why women want to brain wash male children to be blue pill, it makes them tame and easy to manipulate. Funny how womens version of equality is not opportunities to better themselves, but instead they want to bring men down to their level.
It's a womans goal to avoid the wall (hence make up, when they are ugly or old) and a mans goal to destroy the wall (not being beta). Think about it, why do you think women use so much make up when they get older, and try to brainwash men into thinking they have issues for liking youthful women.
Its really twisted, women dont want equality in the sense of having to work hard to get up to mens level, they just want to bring men down.
Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.Maximummax said:Example: Eminem?
If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.Desdinova said:Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If all of those women are living off Social Security checks, they'd have no younger men.Newby 15 said:If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?dasein said:Yeah, I would say it's probably 70. I have a couple of mid 60s friends who work out, have kept in shape and still pull women under 30. Maybe when they turn 70 they will keep it up and prove me wrong.
Total apples and oranges. Women can always find a lay no matter how fat or old due to alcohol and betas, but they passed the wall of attracting average and above quality men long ago, and would have immense problems forming a relationship with young men unless they were loaded. Not so men. There are far more 20+ age gaps male older than female than female older than male.evan12 said:So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?