"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do red pill men eventually hit the wall?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Desdinova
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Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
VikingKing
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Desdinova said:
Yup. So true. We do it to ourselves, we have control over our wall (for the most part).
Thats why women want to brain wash male children to be blue pill, it makes them tame and easy to manipulate. Funny how womens version of equality is not opportunities to better themselves, but instead they want to bring men down to their level.
It's a womans goal to avoid the wall (hence make up, when they are ugly or old) and a mans goal to destroy the wall (not being beta). Think about it, why do you think women use so much make up when they get older, and try to brainwash men into thinking they have issues for liking youthful women.
Its really twisted, women dont want equality in the sense of having to work hard to get up to mens level, they just want to bring men down.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
Example: Eminem?Desdinova said:
Men have no expiration date.. provided they don't make stupid decisions in their youth. This is why I preach focusing on health, education, freedom, etc. Women will always be there. No reason to chase them like you're running out of time. Most women walking around today suffer from mental illness and are not fit for any type of commitment beyond a few years.
Once a man experiences abundance.. he realizes how easy it is to bring women into his life AND how easy it is to replace them. Women are simply always there. Just don't let them f*ck you over and you'll be fine until old age. So I don't understand the thirst and co-dependence of desperate blue pill betas.
It takes either extreme stupidity or severe emotional frailty to be blue pill.
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Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
"Men have no expiration date.. provided they don't make stupid decisions in their youth. This is why I preach focusing on health, education, freedom, etc. Women will always be there. No reason to chase them like you're running out of time. Most women walking around today suffer from mental illness and are not fit for any type of commitment beyond a few years."....You are wise beyond your years...Confidence is everything!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
If all of those women are living off Social Security checks, they'd have no younger men.Newby 15 said:
The decline is just not as sharp as womens'. I don't really think womens' is a "wall" either. More like a slide. A fast, greased slide that drops them from highly f*ckable in their 20s to washed up in their 30s and essentially unf*ckable in their 40s.
But to think that men can bang any young chick at any geriatric age is delusional. Even if you're throwing out a sh*t-ton of cash, the vast majority of chicks will want nothing to do with you when you remind them of gramps.
Tictac
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I don't think that's sour grapes.
Other than the packaging and some 'remember when' moments, I have little to no interest in women much under the age of 50. And whole there are not plenty of decent women at that age, it's worth it to find them and I'm lucky enough to do so regularly.
'Grey game' is different. And not too shabby either.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
I do so agree with you...I also find the Older Women better in the sack,what about you?
Tictac
Banned
Women in full are the BEST in the sack.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Total apples and oranges. Women can always find a lay no matter how fat or old due to alcohol and betas, but they passed the wall of attracting average and above quality men long ago, and would have immense problems forming a relationship with young men unless they were loaded. Not so men. There are far more 20+ age gaps male older than female than female older than male.evan12 said: