You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Example: Eminem?Desdinova said:I have a friend who just turned 50. Last year he got married to an attractive 26 year old.
Men are the ones who build & tear down their own wall. If you think you're too old to attract a good looking woman, then you WILL be too old to attract one.
GoldVikingKing said:Yup. So true. We do it to ourselves, we have control over our wall (for the most part).
Thats why women want to brain wash male children to be blue pill, it makes them tame and easy to manipulate. Funny how womens version of equality is not opportunities to better themselves, but instead they want to bring men down to their level.
It's a womans goal to avoid the wall (hence make up, when they are ugly or old) and a mans goal to destroy the wall (not being beta). Think about it, why do you think women use so much make up when they get older, and try to brainwash men into thinking they have issues for liking youthful women.
Its really twisted, women dont want equality in the sense of having to work hard to get up to mens level, they just want to bring men down.
Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.Maximummax said:Example: Eminem?
If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.Desdinova said:Try Paul McCartney and it's not just because he's a Beatle. You don't see Michelle Phillips from the Mamas & The Papas with a young good looking man.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If all of those women are living off Social Security checks, they'd have no younger men.Newby 15 said:If Paul was living off Social Security checks he'd have no young woman. Mariah Carey, Joan Collins, Robin Wright, Tina Turner, Cher, Geena Davis, Demi Moore, Linda Hogan have younger men.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?dasein said:Yeah, I would say it's probably 70. I have a couple of mid 60s friends who work out, have kept in shape and still pull women under 30. Maybe when they turn 70 they will keep it up and prove me wrong.
Total apples and oranges. Women can always find a lay no matter how fat or old due to alcohol and betas, but they passed the wall of attracting average and above quality men long ago, and would have immense problems forming a relationship with young men unless they were loaded. Not so men. There are far more 20+ age gaps male older than female than female older than male.evan12 said:So if a woman in her 50 or (these days in 60 ) and sleep with young guys mean she didnt hit the wall yet ?