"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Do I know you"

sandman6991

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Ah...the classic "Do I know you..."

I've encountered it many times before, but never been able to find a solution. I sent this girl a message on Facebook that said

"Oh my gawwwd! Your name is *insert her name* too? Wow, we must be soulmates!"

As a note...we actually do have the same name...I'm not just making sh!t up:p

And she replied, with...

"hahaha do i know you?"

These "Do I know you's" have always stumped me, and it's time, once and for all...that I figure out how to deal with this. Any help at all would be appreciated, thanks! If it helps any...this girl lives near me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sandman6991 said:
"hahaha do i know you?"
Respond with "I sat next to you in Ms. Walsh's English Class!"

If she responds back with another quote from Groundhog Day, you'll know you've got a keeper.
 

moto

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just ask her I don't know , Do yoU?

or you can say no but im ____ nice to meet you!

or something unique
 

Jaxon

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Normally when they drop the "do I know you line" it's best to respond with "sorry, must have mistaken you for someone else". Then you end all communication, unless they re-initiate.
If they're playing a game then this response takes all power away from them, and if they genuinely forgot a lot of times your quick non-schalant response will pique their curiousity.
And sometimes they won't respond at all, in which case you're better off for it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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