"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Do I know you"

sandman6991

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Ah...the classic "Do I know you..."

I've encountered it many times before, but never been able to find a solution. I sent this girl a message on Facebook that said

"Oh my gawwwd! Your name is *insert her name* too? Wow, we must be soulmates!"

As a note...we actually do have the same name...I'm not just making sh!t up:p

And she replied, with...

"hahaha do i know you?"

These "Do I know you's" have always stumped me, and it's time, once and for all...that I figure out how to deal with this. Any help at all would be appreciated, thanks! If it helps any...this girl lives near me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sandman6991 said:
"hahaha do i know you?"
Respond with "I sat next to you in Ms. Walsh's English Class!"

If she responds back with another quote from Groundhog Day, you'll know you've got a keeper.
 

moto

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just ask her I don't know , Do yoU?

or you can say no but im ____ nice to meet you!

or something unique
 

Jaxon

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Normally when they drop the "do I know you line" it's best to respond with "sorry, must have mistaken you for someone else". Then you end all communication, unless they re-initiate.
If they're playing a game then this response takes all power away from them, and if they genuinely forgot a lot of times your quick non-schalant response will pique their curiousity.
And sometimes they won't respond at all, in which case you're better off for it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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