"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Do I know you"

sandman6991

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Ah...the classic "Do I know you..."

I've encountered it many times before, but never been able to find a solution. I sent this girl a message on Facebook that said

"Oh my gawwwd! Your name is *insert her name* too? Wow, we must be soulmates!"

As a note...we actually do have the same name...I'm not just making sh!t up:p

And she replied, with...

"hahaha do i know you?"

These "Do I know you's" have always stumped me, and it's time, once and for all...that I figure out how to deal with this. Any help at all would be appreciated, thanks! If it helps any...this girl lives near me
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sandman6991 said:
"hahaha do i know you?"
Respond with "I sat next to you in Ms. Walsh's English Class!"

If she responds back with another quote from Groundhog Day, you'll know you've got a keeper.
 

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just ask her I don't know , Do yoU?

or you can say no but im ____ nice to meet you!

or something unique
 

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Normally when they drop the "do I know you line" it's best to respond with "sorry, must have mistaken you for someone else". Then you end all communication, unless they re-initiate.
If they're playing a game then this response takes all power away from them, and if they genuinely forgot a lot of times your quick non-schalant response will pique their curiousity.
And sometimes they won't respond at all, in which case you're better off for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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