"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do I have erectile dysfunction? Help

GoodOne123

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So recently two events have suspected me into thinking I have ed.

One was when I slept with a friend who is a girl. I was very drunk, so I did have whiskey diick, however it was still very hard for me to maintain an erection with her.

Second event happened in the club, I was again completely drunk. I Was aggressively making out with this girl. But when she grabbed my diick, I couldn't get hard.

I used to have no problems, even when drunk, but now it' getting worse.

I find it difficult to have a hard erection even when I am sober. I used to easily make an erection just by thinking sexy thoughts, but now it's difficult.

Recent lifestyle changes I made were nofap, where I would go for 1 to 2 weeks without porn or fapping, then relapse once, then begin the cycle again. I might be "flatlining" but it's been 3 months since this problem has occurred which is very long for a flatline?

I also took a 2 week cycle of prohormone ostarine. But I' not sure this would have much effect.

I also went 4 months without any exercise, which I'm recently starting working out again now.

I have also took up smoking 5 cigarettes a week, where I didn' smoke before.

I also go out get drunk once a week.

Lastly I have more stress since I might potentially have to lose my main property asset due to financial issues.

Please help me guys I'm only 24!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75

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Check your T levels. Stop smoking.

ED is typically a heart related issue...be careful.
 

RangerMIke

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When you quit working out you testosterone levels dropped. Now that you are doing this again you should get back to normal as your levels go back up.

Yea... and you need to quit smoking, nicotine contracts the veins and disrupts the flow of blood, this could have an impact as well.

I do not know what Ostarine is... never heard of it.
 

rayv12

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I faced a similar issue a few months back.
Too much alcohol, porn and masturbation. Could not get it up at three different times making out.

Quit porn, started NoFap.

First 3 months,
No changes, my condition felt worse and had an urge to check if my penis still works.No relapse.

4 month
Things got better. Random boners!

6 months.
Back to normal. Much better performance and great Sex.

No relapse till date.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spaz

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I think it's all mindset.

If u r horny, ur manhood will rise to the occasion.
 

JohnChops

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When you quit working out you testosterone levels dropped. Now that you are doing this again you should get back to normal as your levels go back up.

Yea... and you need to quit smoking, nicotine contracts the veins and disrupts the flow of blood, this could have an impact as well.

I do not know what Ostarine is... never heard of it.
Small vessel disease effects the penis pretty heavily.
 

BoySam

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I have exactly the same issue. I'm struggling to understand the reason there is no intimacy in my relationship while I'm sober. Sexual intimacy was abandoned when I stopped drinking and began recovery. My doc put me on Cialis ( Cialis Canadian Pharmacy ) , but I don't want take pills for the rest of my like to be able to have sex. Hope to find solution and will keep you posted
 

Who Dares Win

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So recently two events have suspected me into thinking I have ed.

One was when I slept with a friend who is a girl. I was very drunk, so I did have whiskey diick, however it was still very hard for me to maintain an erection with her.

Second event happened in the club, I was again completely drunk. I Was aggressively making out with this girl. But when she grabbed my diick, I couldn't get hard.

I used to have no problems, even when drunk, but now it' getting worse.

I find it difficult to have a hard erection even when I am sober. I used to easily make an erection just by thinking sexy thoughts, but now it's difficult.

Recent lifestyle changes I made were nofap, where I would go for 1 to 2 weeks without porn or fapping, then relapse once, then begin the cycle again. I might be "flatlining" but it's been 3 months since this problem has occurred which is very long for a flatline?

I also took a 2 week cycle of prohormone ostarine. But I' not sure this would have much effect.

I also went 4 months without any exercise, which I'm recently starting working out again now.

I have also took up smoking 5 cigarettes a week, where I didn' smoke before.

I also go out get drunk once a week.

Lastly I have more stress since I might potentially have to lose my main property asset due to financial issues.

Please help me guys I'm only 24!
Had similar effects from ostarine, erections were weaker and load was lighter.

Anyway check your hormones level, good chance your T is not as high as it should be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Murk

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Well you've given 2 examples of not getting hard and both times you've been drunk so not really sure how this thread is being framed. The same thing has happened to me. I've also got very hard while drunk last Friday and banged a girl outside in a driveway. It's swings and roundabouts.

I've never not gotten hard while sober - give examples of that because your thread is just all over the place.

Not getting hard while drinking is normal. You can't throw in one line about struggling sober and expect the thread to run. Examples.
 

Dingo

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Follow a heart healthy diet and exercise...

If that doesn't help Cialis is your friend.... That stuff works great.
 

skinnyguy

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Work out cut drinking and stop smoking.
NoFap will help.

I got this stuff from Colombia that’s like viagra and it saved me last time I couldn’t get hard. The girl was about to leave.

I tried super male vitality and it was ok. I’m gonna try this Male Libido stuff from Whole Foods and see if it works
 

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I used to not need for-play but now I’m in my 30s my d!ck definitely isn’t as reliable, however the younger and more fit the women is the better it works.

Wierd huh? :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dash Riprock

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Viagra works but makes my ears ring pretty bad for a while. I think I took too much last time. I don't have ED but have experienced PA with new partners. Alcohol makes the PA worse.

Anybody have any luck with anything besides Viagra, Cialis, Levitra?
 
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