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Bud_Fox
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If a woman gave you a blow job, but you didn't have sex with her does she still count as one of your sexual partners?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do blow-jobs count when you add up the number of women you've had sex with?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yes.
According to the OPL (Official Players League) *******s count as one.
Bondage counts as two points.
Virgin is three points.
Sleeping with your best friends mom is four points.
and ... the legendary "Dirty Sanchez" is the bullseye of the players league.
According to the OPL (Official Players League) *******s count as one.
Bondage counts as two points.
Virgin is three points.
Sleeping with your best friends mom is four points.
and ... the legendary "Dirty Sanchez" is the bullseye of the players league.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Uhh...no.
Vlad the Impaler
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What if you dry hump and you bust a nut. Does that count?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Exactly!ChrizZ said:
Not if you are Bill Clinton. To the OP, just go out there and get laid, and stop worrying about minor stats.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Bud_Fox said:
Only if she swallows.
Bud_Fox said:
He didn't ask if oral sex counts as having sex with a girl.
He asked if it counts as a sexual partner.
Why wouldn't you count someone you do a sexual act with as a sexual partner? Isn't your pee pee getting hard? Aren't you having an orgasm? What's more sexual than cumming?
Count *for what?*Vlad the Impaler said:
The number of girls who have stimulated your penis?
Or the number of girls you've had sex with?
This number of girls thing is completely artificial and there is no official tally or rules governing it.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
mrRuckus said:
Women's formula:
Actual number of sex acts, minus bl0wjobs, minus handjobs, minus any ONS, minus anything that happened in a bar parking lot, minus threesomes and other girls, minus any relationship that lasted less than a month, and then rounded down to the nearest ten...so as not to seem like a slvt.
Men's formula:
Actual number of sex acts, plus everything that women minus, plus every time that you think you could've, but didn't, then rounded up to the nearest ten...so as to feel like a stud.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.