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Bud_Fox
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If a woman gave you a blow job, but you didn't have sex with her does she still count as one of your sexual partners?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly!ChrizZ said:yes.
According to the OPL (Official Players League) *******s count as one.
Bondage counts as two points.
Virgin is three points.
Sleeping with your best friends mom is four points.
and ... the legendary "Dirty Sanchez" is the bullseye of the players league.
Do you want it to count as one of your sexual partners?Bud_Fox said:If a woman gave you a blow job, but you didn't have sex with her does she still count as one of your sexual partners?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bud_Fox said:If a woman gave you a blow job, but you didn't have sex with her does she still count as one of your sexual partners?
Bud_Fox said:If a woman gave you a blow job, but you didn't have sex with her does she still count as one of your sexual partners?
Count *for what?*Vlad the Impaler said:What if you dry hump and you bust a nut. Does that count?
mrRuckus said:This number of girls thing is completely artificial and there is no official tally or rules governing it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Post of the day, right here.Bible_Belt said:Women's formula:
Actual number of sex acts, minus bl0wjobs, minus handjobs, minus any ONS, minus anything that happened in a bar parking lot, minus threesomes and other girls, minus any relationship that lasted less than a month, and then rounded down to the nearest ten...so as not to seem like a slvt.
Men's formula:
Actual number of sex acts, plus everything that women minus, plus every time that you think you could've, but didn't, then rounded up to the nearest ten...so as to feel like a stud.