Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJing shy girls

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How do you DJ shy girls?? I'm having some problems with that. I think shy girls are afraid that I'm a player because I act so confident with them. Any non-AFC ways for DJing player haters?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would continue to be confident. Remember, girls LOVE that quality in a man. However, I would kick up the 'sweet' comments just a little bit.
 

So pimp its scary

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Shy girls are easy, just DON"T C&F, OR NEGHIT. You might turn them anorexic or something.

I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
 

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What happens if you C&F a shy girl? And how do you generate signs of interest if you can't use C&F on them? would it be more of a fatherly approach?
 

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I use c&f on shy girls too. They like it. Actually when they are painfully shy i'll even make a smartass comment about it to help them loosen up a bit. Even shy girls aren't fragile. Then again they are not my favorite goal either, since most shy girls are kinda boring whereas 'regular'girls are more of a challenge.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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I was personnaly talking about girls with painfully low self-esteem... the kind that can't keep eye-contact, and all that stuff.

But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
 

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Yeah i guess with the painfully shy ones i just make it little more obvious that i am joking. This way i had some girls totally opening up and joking too. It is fun to watch them opening up.
 

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give them 100% of your attention...

if they get destracted then find an appropriate kino way to get them to turn around and give you thier attention again...
 

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xomel, isn't giving them 100% your attention the reverse of normal DJ tactics?
 

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Interesting replys. I'm not intentionally targeting shy girls, nor am I interested in party HOs. I just have a great opportunity in my social group. Would rules have to be changed in the amount of attention that should be given to the subjects? For instance number of days to wait till calling, etc. Because I know some of these girls on a very basic level but we're not friends or anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Treat all girls the same on the surface. If one girl doesn't dig your true self, another will.
 
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