Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
How do you DJ shy girls?? I'm having some problems with that. I think shy girls are afraid that I'm a player because I act so confident with them. Any non-AFC ways for DJing player haters?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
DJing shy girls
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I would continue to be confident. Remember, girls LOVE that quality in a man. However, I would kick up the 'sweet' comments just a little bit.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Shy girls are easy, just DON"T C&F, OR NEGHIT. You might turn them anorexic or something.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I use c&f on shy girls too. They like it. Actually when they are painfully shy i'll even make a smartass comment about it to help them loosen up a bit. Even shy girls aren't fragile. Then again they are not my favorite goal either, since most shy girls are kinda boring whereas 'regular'girls are more of a challenge.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I was personnaly talking about girls with painfully low self-esteem... the kind that can't keep eye-contact, and all that stuff.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Interesting replys. I'm not intentionally targeting shy girls, nor am I interested in party HOs. I just have a great opportunity in my social group. Would rules have to be changed in the amount of attention that should be given to the subjects? For instance number of days to wait till calling, etc. Because I know some of these girls on a very basic level but we're not friends or anything.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.