Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
How do you DJ shy girls?? I'm having some problems with that. I think shy girls are afraid that I'm a player because I act so confident with them. Any non-AFC ways for DJing player haters?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DJing shy girls
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I would continue to be confident. Remember, girls LOVE that quality in a man. However, I would kick up the 'sweet' comments just a little bit.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Shy girls are easy, just DON"T C&F, OR NEGHIT. You might turn them anorexic or something.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I use c&f on shy girls too. They like it. Actually when they are painfully shy i'll even make a smartass comment about it to help them loosen up a bit. Even shy girls aren't fragile. Then again they are not my favorite goal either, since most shy girls are kinda boring whereas 'regular'girls are more of a challenge.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I was personnaly talking about girls with painfully low self-esteem... the kind that can't keep eye-contact, and all that stuff.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Interesting replys. I'm not intentionally targeting shy girls, nor am I interested in party HOs. I just have a great opportunity in my social group. Would rules have to be changed in the amount of attention that should be given to the subjects? For instance number of days to wait till calling, etc. Because I know some of these girls on a very basic level but we're not friends or anything.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.