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Master Don Juan
How do you DJ shy girls?? I'm having some problems with that. I think shy girls are afraid that I'm a player because I act so confident with them. Any non-AFC ways for DJing player haters?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJing shy girls
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I would continue to be confident. Remember, girls LOVE that quality in a man. However, I would kick up the 'sweet' comments just a little bit.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Shy girls are easy, just DON"T C&F, OR NEGHIT. You might turn them anorexic or something.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I actually don't like shy girls, they are too hard to read... too sheltered. To each his own.
I use c&f on shy girls too. They like it. Actually when they are painfully shy i'll even make a smartass comment about it to help them loosen up a bit. Even shy girls aren't fragile. Then again they are not my favorite goal either, since most shy girls are kinda boring whereas 'regular'girls are more of a challenge.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I was personnaly talking about girls with painfully low self-esteem... the kind that can't keep eye-contact, and all that stuff.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
But, you can still be c&f, but it's gotta be a little gentler then you could get away with on a 'regular' girl.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Interesting replys. I'm not intentionally targeting shy girls, nor am I interested in party HOs. I just have a great opportunity in my social group. Would rules have to be changed in the amount of attention that should be given to the subjects? For instance number of days to wait till calling, etc. Because I know some of these girls on a very basic level but we're not friends or anything.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.