"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DJ tattoos... any ideas?
- Thread starter AlphaNate
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
Is that a symbol for Dons that I'm just not aware of?
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
It can be any type of king, just basically a man sitting on a throne with a crown to remind me that's how I want to carry myself, as royalty. Not in a snooty way, but in the way I treat myself and others.
I want mine directly in the center of my chest, or slightly below it, rather large. But this may be a bit much for you, I guess the arm or something can work as well.
Just get something that you think will look cool and you wouldnt get bored of. Not something that you think looks macho, or you might regret it.
This is a t-shirt site, but there are lots of tattoo ideas here. Lemme know what you decide on if you do find it. I am curious.
http://mintees.com/tees
I texted my tat artist and let him know I'm wanting ink. I told him I'd like to get Eros if he could make it masculine. He drew my last one (detailed lion plus negative tribal) and made it look spectacular.
I'm still not 100% sure yet, but I'll keep you posted. *brofists*
EDIT: I've been searching for a bit now, and I'm not sure there's any way to make Eros (basically Cupid) look masculine. I've already got a lion. Maybe just the words "ALPHA MALE" somewhere that's not revealing would be ideal. I've Googled my ass off and can't come up with much better.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.