"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ tattoos... any ideas?

AlphaNate

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I didn't see a thread specifically relating to this.

I want to get a new tat that reminds me of my DJ status, without making it blatantly obvious as to what it means.

Any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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XI AlphaMale IX said:
I didn't see a thread specifically relating to this.

I want to get a new tat that reminds me of my DJ status, without making it blatantly obvious as to what it means.

Any ideas?
Maybe get one that says "I'm comfortable with myself and don't need a Tattoo to remind me I am a "Don Juan DeMarco"?

Come on man, your 30, you going through an identity crisis or something?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, I like tattoos. I have 5 now, and I'm craving another one.

And yes, I have an addictive personality and right now I'm addicted to women.

DON'T JUDGE ME.
 

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Nothing wrong with that playa. I'm craving another tattoo too. Something that reflects that I only like messing with 10's. I've been thinking about what to get but nothing creative. Only thing I can think of is getting a dime tatted on me and that is not happening.
 

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I've thought about this myself as well, and I recently wanted to get a King.
It can be any type of king, just basically a man sitting on a throne with a crown to remind me that's how I want to carry myself, as royalty. Not in a snooty way, but in the way I treat myself and others.

I want mine directly in the center of my chest, or slightly below it, rather large. But this may be a bit much for you, I guess the arm or something can work as well.
 

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I just got this a few weeks ago. Its of the painting in the background that I made. https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/s720x720/418482_10100556426933341_58014565_58813551_335735568_n.jpg

Just get something that you think will look cool and you wouldnt get bored of. Not something that you think looks macho, or you might regret it.

This is a t-shirt site, but there are lots of tattoo ideas here. Lemme know what you decide on if you do find it. I am curious.

http://mintees.com/tees
 

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Thanks for the ideas guys!

I texted my tat artist and let him know I'm wanting ink. I told him I'd like to get Eros if he could make it masculine. He drew my last one (detailed lion plus negative tribal) and made it look spectacular.

I'm still not 100% sure yet, but I'll keep you posted. *brofists*

EDIT: I've been searching for a bit now, and I'm not sure there's any way to make Eros (basically Cupid) look masculine. I've already got a lion. Maybe just the words "ALPHA MALE" somewhere that's not revealing would be ideal. I've Googled my ass off and can't come up with much better.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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