"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ tattoos... any ideas?
- Thread starter AlphaNate
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
Is that a symbol for Dons that I'm just not aware of?
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
It can be any type of king, just basically a man sitting on a throne with a crown to remind me that's how I want to carry myself, as royalty. Not in a snooty way, but in the way I treat myself and others.
I want mine directly in the center of my chest, or slightly below it, rather large. But this may be a bit much for you, I guess the arm or something can work as well.
Just get something that you think will look cool and you wouldnt get bored of. Not something that you think looks macho, or you might regret it.
This is a t-shirt site, but there are lots of tattoo ideas here. Lemme know what you decide on if you do find it. I am curious.
http://mintees.com/tees
I texted my tat artist and let him know I'm wanting ink. I told him I'd like to get Eros if he could make it masculine. He drew my last one (detailed lion plus negative tribal) and made it look spectacular.
I'm still not 100% sure yet, but I'll keep you posted. *brofists*
EDIT: I've been searching for a bit now, and I'm not sure there's any way to make Eros (basically Cupid) look masculine. I've already got a lion. Maybe just the words "ALPHA MALE" somewhere that's not revealing would be ideal. I've Googled my ass off and can't come up with much better.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.